You could argue with some justification it's his own fault for starting you off down the hotwiving path, but that's by-the-by.
He never pushed or pressured me to try it out.
And it's a good question because the kneejerk reaction from many women is a feeling of loss and almost abandonment; indeed, many of them think the man is asking her to do it so he can then take another partner -- but the truth is most men don't want this at all.
I would watch it every chance I got.
Some women get angry and bitchy at this point, and it doesn't help.
Description: He could not take his eyes off it.